I’m fucked but ahhhhh
How I’m gonna die so I can just avoid it, like if I’m gonna die on a plane crash then I’m not going on a plane if i’m gonna choke on my Big Mac I’ll fucking blend everything :p
it’s not your job to entertain him by sending him nudes
it’s not your job to satisfy him sexually because he’s horny
you are not required to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or that you don’t want to do
don’t be scared of “losing him”
he most likely wasn’t anything worth keeping
This was me for the longest time. I felt obligated to do whatever he asked.
Seriously, commin from a guy, if a guy demands all that shit and for you to bow down to his every command, dump the cunt, find a real man.
Hey derekgmc, it sounds like you are actually trying to be helpful and supportive, so I want address what you said, and why it’s really not helping anyone:
You clearly don’t understand what it’s like to be in that position, so please don’t speak to it. You sound just like the people who say “Why didn’t she just leave?” to the woman in a DV relationship.
Sometimesit’s not that easy, and not that simple. Saying things like that not only doesn’t help, it actively hurts and inflames situations.
Another thing - calling a dude a gendered slur used against women… also not cool. You are once again, hurting women.
Lastly, that “real man” talk is like a scapegoat for ignoring issues. The men that treat women this way are in fact real men. They aren’t ghosts or aliens, they aren’t made up. Real (shitty) men are hurting real women. Don’t support it by continuing to make the comments you’ve made.